BYF
- i have really bad memory from constantly masking emotions and keeping them stable, and also just because i'm very forgetful in general, and so it is very likely I will ghost you, please follow up if so!
- i LOVE antoya/nenetoya, i will absolutely rant about it.
- i will isolate if i feel upset, please don't take it personally, i become very draining when upset and i'm afraid of losing others. if i'm upset and not isolating from you, please take it as a sign i definitely trust you! but if i become too much please let me know
- i get uncomfortable by extreme jokes, i hate drug and alch0h0l jokes, nsfw jokes, etc. Emphasis on the extreme bit, I don't mind jokes that aren't too extreme (unless it's repetitive, i will get tired of it and i will eventually get upset by it)
- i ramble a LOT, positive or negative and i tend to bring up my past a lot, if you're uncomfy tell me to stfu and i will!
- i have a really bad "guess what? chicken butt" habit. it's like a vocal stim for me. i say it every 30 minutes and even more often when i'm on a call. PLEASE tell me to stop if it gets too repetitve I've tried to kill the habit but I can't qwq
- I have borderline personaity disorder and anxious attachment, not the best duo so please set boundaries with me if anything goes wrong and please be patient with me ;;
- i ship akitoya/emunene strictly platonically and dislike toukoha, but respect those who ship it!
- i think alnst is mid and won't have a lot to say about it, sorry!
- i only become talkative when close (unless i asked to be your friend)
- i become dry when in a bad mood, again don't take it personally it's either that or intense emotions so i think we would all prefer dryness over intense sad emotions </3
- I DO WARM UP, IT TAKES TIME.
- if my status is on dniuc and you msg me regardless (and we aren't close), you'll be left on read unless it's important
- i am VERY slow to understand right from wrong or to process things, so please feel free to correct me if i'm unintentionally being weird..
- i cannot stress this enough, but I NEED COMMUNICATION. if i did smth wrong please tell me because i am not psychic and if you become cold and distant and idek why my bpd WILL act up and it isn't a pleasant experience so I beg to please communicate with me if you're uncomfortable by anything.

DNI
- People under 13 or people over 25.. exceptions might apply but I am usually kinda strict about this..
- Proshippers/lolicons.. do I even need to explain?
- People who sexualize any character under 18. I don't care if you're a minor yourself it's still very weird to be publicly saying the things you'd do to a minor or to make two characters (esp if 1 or both are minors) implied (or full on) bump uglies for tiktok to see, fictional or not.
- Basic DNI criteria such as racist, transphobic, homophobic, etc.
- Creeps, and people who send NSFW pictures or inappropriate images of themselves immediately. Come on guys basic decency to not be horny asses, and please have a tiny bit of self respect..
- people who flirt w me JOKINGLY without asking, unless we're friends. if a stranger starts to joke flirt I will feel extremely uncomfortable.. let's avoid that, please!
- people who are too passive aggressive or sarcastic, please don't take offense I'm just kinda sensitive and emotional prone ;;
- anti nene kusanagi or an shiraishi, they're my highest prsk kins so it feels kinda weird to associate with someone who HATES them.
- people who purposefully trigger my bpd / splitting. The intention doesn't matter, if it was on purpose and you wanted to get a reaction out of me, kindly block me because tyou don't know how mentally and physically painful it is when splitting / my emotions get too intense
- and on that topic also people who use things i say during splits to jump to conclusions or paint me in a monsterish light.
- mental disorders deniers
- nenetoya haters, it's my comfort ship so if someone hates it to death, i'd feel uneasy. I don't care if you don't ship it though, I just feel uneasy when someone like openly says they hate it to death
- rcta / ragebait accs
- those people that make those "ngh! deeper.." jokes.. i know that's the kind of humor going around in the big '25 but im not a fan.. if you're a friend and you make these kinds of jokes i won't stop you but PLEASE tone it down around me